For Stephen Alesch and Robin Standefer, the husband-and-wife founders of Roman and Williams, there is no place more inspiring than their home on Long Island’s East End. “We’ve been out in the wilds of Montauk for almost two decades,” explains Standefer. “It’s where we can be our most creative selves—surrounded by nature and away from it all.”
That dramatic landscape also informs the couple’s passion for alfresco entertaining year-round, with each season serving up its particular bounty. “Summer for us means abundance—our gardens explode, and we have more time to dedicate to the making of things,” says Standefer. “The fruits of that labor come to life on and around our table.”
In keeping with Montauk’s bohemian spirit, Alesch and Standefer embrace a refreshingly laissez-faire attitude toward hospitality—and encourage guests to take part. “We’d rather people arrive when things are still coming together—to be a part of the making—rather than needing them to see everything perfectly in its place,” says Standefer. “They wander with us around our garden while we pick flowers that make their way onto the table or herbs for their drinks.”
The table—made from a 16-foot oak slab that Alesch transformed into a centerpiece for entertaining—is filled with wares by favorite artisans, vintage pieces, and items designed by the couple for their home line, Roman and Williams Guild. “It’s about bringing together pieces, whether old or new, that tell a story of making and a story of materials,” says Standefer.
“Out in Montauk, we use handmade ceramics by our beloved Danish artisan KH Würtz and for this dinner party, we chose handblown glassware by Korean artisan Keiko Lee,” says Standefer. “Silverware is a mix of vintage pieces with flatware that Stephen and I spent three years designing and recently launched. The Bean and Bone collections are crafted in Japan and feel wonderful in the hand.”
The resulting tableau is at once luxurious and languorous—not unlike the moody, sophisticated world of Roman and Williams, where historical references are wrapped impeccably in a modern envelope. Explains Standefer, “Natural is often associated with rustic and wild, but we love that it can absolutely be glamorous and elegant as well.”
Shop the Story
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Large Wide Rim Bowl by KH Wurtz
$150, rwguild.com
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Short Hair Sheepskin Throw by RW Guild
$475, rwguild.com
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On-the-Rocks Glass by Keiko Lee
$170, rwguild.com
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Round Glass Bottle Vase by Yoshihiro Nishiyama
$490, rwguild.com
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Cactus Sterling Silver Flatware by Georg Jensen
$196, rwguild.com
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Fringe Washed Linen Napkin by RW Guild
$35, rwguild.com
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